She talks about her dreams as if they are already beginning to take shape — a life imagined in bright strokes, full of meaning and promise. There is certainty in her voice, the kind that doesn’t yet know how easily the world can complicate things.
I listen, and I am taken back.
I remember dreaming about my own life the same way — imagining how it would all turn out, believing in fairytale endings, in love that would last, in a life that would unfold with purpose and grace. I remember holding ideals close, convinced that wanting something deeply was enough to make it real.
I think of the road I have travelled since then. The unexpected turns. The chapters I never planned for. The ways my life became both harder and richer than the story I first told myself. Not a fairytale — something truer, layered, and lived with all its turns.
As my granddaughter speaks, another memory surfaces: my grandmother listening to me all those years ago. How she must have recognised the hope in my voice. How she must have known more than she said. How she chose silence over correction, faith over caution.
I wonder what she felt, hearing me speak so freely of the life I imagined.
My granddaughter’s hands move as she talks, shaping possibilities I cannot yet see. I do not reach in to edit them. I do not trim them down to size. Dreams need room before they need realism.
So I listen. Fully. Lovingly.
I let her believe.
Our words cross gently — hers moving forward with confidence, mine circling back with understanding. Time folds in on itself, and I feel the long line of women behind and ahead of me, each listening in turn.
And in that moment, I understand:
nothing has been lost.
It has only been passed on.
The dreaming. The believing. The quiet act of being heard.
This, too, is inheritance — and it matters more than we ever realise.
Beautiful!
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Thank you — I appreciate you reading it 🤍
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It sure does! Without realising what I was doing, I often went the other way and opted to speak ‘realism’. I feel sad about that. But it is never the end of the story!
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Thank you for sharing that so openly. I hear the tenderness in it, and the regret too — but also a sense of release. I recognise that pull toward realism; it often grows out of experience and a desire to protect. And you’re right: it is never the end of the story. Perhaps it’s all part of the same arc — dreaming, learning, and then gently making space for dreaming again.
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Beautiful. Tears in my eyes.
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Once again Jaana, your words move me to my soul.
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Thank you — I’m so glad the words found their way to you 🤍
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Very beautiful thoughts. It was a joy to read this…Lx
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Thank you — I’m so glad you enjoyed it.
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