Dandelion Puffballs

Have you ever gone for a walk with a small child and held their little hand in yours as they skip along beside you? Their fingers curl trustingly around your own, while their happy chatter rises and falls like birdsong — one thought tumbling into another, one question giving way to the next, their mind darting here and there like a little grasshopper in the grass. There is something about being beside a child like that that gently stirs the heart. Their wonder is so fresh and untarnished that it draws you in.

Children look at the world with such different eyes to ours. Somewhere along the way, we adults become practical, hurried, burdened by responsibilities and thoughts that press heavily upon us. We stop seeing things for what they are and begin seeing only what they mean in terms of work, inconvenience, or obligation. But children still see wonder. They still see the world as something to delight in.

When the weather begins to soften and the chill gives way to warmth, hundreds of tiny yellow dandelions appear in our yards like drops of sunlight scattered across the grass. We grown-ups often grimace at the sight, already thinking of weeds, overgrown lawns, and what needs to be pulled out. But children do not see weeds. They see beauty. They see colour. They see little golden flowers standing bravely in the grass, just waiting to be picked by chubby little hands and offered, with all sincerity, to someone they love.

And then later, when those same golden flowers transform into white puffballs, children somehow find even more magic in them. They run towards them with squeals of delight, pluck them carefully, close their eyes tightly, and blow with all their might. Then they watch, wide-eyed and laughing, as the tiny seeds lift into the air and drift away like a thousand little parachutes. To a child, that moment is not small. It is not ordinary. It is wonder itself.

That, to me, is part of the beauty of children. They do not have to try to bring joy into the world. They do it simply by being who they are. Their enthusiasm spills over. Their love is given so freely. Their hugs are wholehearted, their smiles impossible to resist, and their delight in the smallest things has a way of reaching right into the weary places of the heart. Children live in the moment in a way most of us have long forgotten how to do. They do not stand at a distance from life. They enter it fully. They feel it fully. They embrace it with both arms.

And perhaps that is why being with a child can feel like such a quiet kind of healing.

We spend so much of our lives trying to teach children about life — how to be careful, how to behave, how to grow, how to carry themselves in the world. But all the while, they are teaching us too. They remind us of something we once knew and somehow misplaced. They remind us that life is not only found in the big milestones, the achievements, or the things we have ticked off our lists. It is also here, in the smallest moments. In sunshine on the grass. In a little hand in yours. In laughter carried on the breeze. In a dandelion puffball dissolving into the wind.

This morning, I was reminded of that all over again. I was reminded how easily joy can still be found if I am willing to slow down enough to notice it. How wonder still exists, waiting patiently for tired grown-up eyes to see it. And how sometimes the world does not need to change for the heart to feel lighter. Sometimes all that is needed is to look at it differently.

So if you are feeling gloomy or heavy-hearted, perhaps the answer is not always to search for something grand. Perhaps sometimes it is enough to borrow the eyes of a child for a little while. To notice what is still lovely. To let yourself be charmed by something small and fleeting. To pick up a puffball, close your eyes, and blow.

It worked for me this morning.

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  1. Anne-Marie's avatar annemariedoecke says:

    Again, beautifully written.. one can picture the scene …

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    1. Thank you for your encouragement!!

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  2. Dana Lou's avatar Dana Lou says:

    When I’m out walking I always remember what you told me about looking at things like a child and then I do. Makes the world seem so much better at that moment.

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    1. That makes me smile! Children do have such special way of looking at things!

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